Family constellations

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If you feel this calling, then I invite you to think about how many generations were needed for you to be here today...

2 Parents, 4 grandparents, 8 great-grandparents, 16 second great-grandparents, 32 third great-grandparents, 64 fourth great-grandparents, 128 fifth great-grandparents, 256 sixth great-grandparents, 512 seventh great-grandparents, 1.024 eighth great-grandparents, 2.048 ninth great-grandparents...

Could you allow yourself to feel everything that you feel about the whole pain, the whole suffering that your ancestors experienced?

And could you allow yourself to feel what strategies, what traps, what beliefs and patterns of repetition, you have been carrying unconsciously for love and loyalty, which are making you suffer like them?

Perhaps you think that suffering like them, you would be honouring their suffering. Know that your pain does not heal your system, your pain only perpetuates the pain. The cure is your freedom, it is your happiness, in this way you will honour them, many times doing it differently.

Setting yourself free for a lighter and easier life you also set free your descendants, so they can have a much lighter and easier life.

Now I invite you to look at your ancestors and see what you haven't seen before. How many of them had grown, prospered, had happy marriages and relationships, and had full and healthy lives?

Could you accept with love and gratitude the whole strength, the whole courage, the whole abundance and success that belongs to your lineage?

Could you allow yourself to accept all the incredible life movements that your ancestors offer you? 

Family Constellation, created by Bert Hellinger, is a mental resignification tool and will give you the opportunity to look at everything that was from a new perspective. There is a lighter way to walk.

A family constellation session can be used to address any issue in any part of your life. From relationships, to illness or symptoms, phobias, money, infertility and difficulties getting pregnant, marriage, separation, death/grief, professional career, prosperity, trauma, adoption, abortion/miscarriage, doubts about a life change you need to make... and more.

To discover which part of your life needs attention or healing, I invite you to do an exercise. Please take a deep breath, calmly read each one of the questions below, and just notice if any of these questions are a trigger for you:

• How was your conception and birth?
• How were your first seven years?
• With whom did you learn to give up your own self to make someone else happy?
• What is the price you pay to give up your own self?
• Who’s life are you living?
• "Mother, father, if I do everything right will you love me more?"
• When did you learn to be a good girl to please your mother and father?
• What is the truth that is stopping you from completely loving your father or mother?
• When did this love for your father or mother get interrupted?
• Is there a part of you that can’t surrender to a relationship?
• Would you free yourself if you could? When?
• What is stopping you from moving forward?
• Is there a part of you that doesn’t want to heal? 
• Can you see the both the pros and cons in healing yourself?
• Could you allow yourself to go to the origin and see where this pain, or anxiety, comes from?
• Who was not grieved? Who was excluded? 
• What part of you feels like you don't belong? Or feels like you are in the wrong place, occupying a place or a body that is not yours?
• What part of you doesn't know who you are now that you're children have grown up / your partner had died / your parents have died / you lost your job...
• What part of you believes that can’t have and don't deserve professional success?
• What part of you is sabotaging yourself in the face of professional opportunities?
• What part of you believes that you that can’t earn money or have prosperity and abundance?